Friday, April 16, 2010

Last day of foundation sem3

Goodbye all my friends
Thank you that you guys accompany me in my life of foundation
You all are going to Utar Kampar or Sungai Long
Even those is far away
But I hope our friendship can stand longer
I will keep contact with you guys
The life in foundation is so fun
From we dunno each other until being best friends
Just in a year
We had did so many thing
TA 1 THE STREAM A 1ST CLASS !

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Random~Utar life

My Sem 3 Utar life

Hanging out around
  • -Movie
  • -Eat
  • -Play
  • -Visit somewhere never go before
Yesterday, I sat Yi Wen car to school
My car was parked at Huey Ping house
The driver(YW)
She had beed fetched 4 person
Added her
5 person
Woo
First time go school with 4 person
Damn funny
After school
We went to Midvalley for sushi
Who knows,
We forget needed to droped Winnie at Connaught
So we change our location to Leisure Mall
We Q 30 minute for our place
Wohoo
Sushi member day
Greatful
My favorite
I still remember
Is your favorite too
But then
You not free


Today
Hmm
Early in the morning
Still the same
7plus reached school
Then parked my car
Mun Xin was so emo today
Im so scare
Dunno why she is emo
Then after school again
We decide to go Shan house at Mont Kiara
5 of us
Drove 4 car there
We ate maggi
Watch movie
hmm
Sleep
Play
Then until 4pm
Yi wen need to back school for her class
So HP accompany her
Then left Shan,Xin and me
So..
We went Kepong
Saw this shop below
Then just walk-in for ice!

Monday, April 12, 2010

放弃也是一种快乐

人的情感总是希望有所得,以为拥有的东西越多,自己就会越快乐。所以,这一人之常情就迫使我们沿着追寻获取的路走下去。可是,有一天,我们忽然惊觉:我们的忧郁、无聊、困惑、无奈、一切不快乐,都和我们的要求有关,我们之所以不快乐,是我们渴望拥有的东西太多了,或者,太执着了,不知不觉,我们已经执迷于某个事物上了。

 
  譬如说,你爱上了一个人,而他(她)却不爱你,你的世界就微缩在对他(她)的感情上了,他(她)的一举手、一投足,都能吸引你的注意力,都能成为你快乐和痛苦的源泉。有时候,你明明知道那不是你的,却想去强求,或可能出于盲目自信,或过于相信精诚所至、金石为开,结果不断地努力,却遭来不断的挫折。有的靠缘分,有的靠机遇,有的得需要人们能以看山看水的心情来欣赏,不是自己的不强求,无法得到的就放弃。


  懂得放弃才有快乐,背着包袱走路总是很辛苦。


  我们在生活中,时刻都在取与舍中选择,我们又总是渴望着取,渴望着占有,常常忽略了舍,忽略了占有的反面--放弃。懂得了放弃的真意,也就理解了“失之东隅,收之桑榆”的妙谛。懂得了放弃的真意,静观万物,体会与世界一样博大的境界,我们自然会懂得适时地有所放弃,这正是我们获得内心平衡,获得快乐的好方法。


  生活有时会逼迫你,不得不交出权力,不得不放走机遇,甚至不得不抛下爱情。你不可能什么都得到,生活中应该学会放弃。放弃会使你显得豁达豪爽。放弃会使你冷静主动,放弃会让你变得更智慧和更有力量。


  什么应该放弃?放弃失恋带来的痛楚,放弃屈辱留下的仇恨,放弃心中所有难言的负荷;放弃浪费精力的争吵,放弃没完没了的解释;放弃对权力的角逐,放弃对金钱的贪欲,放弃对名利的争夺……一切源于自私的欲望,一切恶意的念头,一切固执的观念都应该放弃。


  然而,放弃并非易事,需要很大的勇气。面对诸多不可为之事,勇于放弃,是明智的选择。只有毫不犹豫地放弃,才能重新轻松投入新生活,才会有新的发现和转机。


  生活中缺少不了放弃。大千世界,取之弃之是相互伴随的,有所弃才有所取。人的一生是放弃和争取的矛盾统一体,潇洒地放弃不必要的名利,执著地追求自己的人生目标。



  学会放弃,本身就是一种淘汰,一种选择,淘汰掉自己的弱项,选择自己的强项。放弃不是不思进取,恰到好处的放弃,正是为了更好地进取,常言道:退一步,海阔天空。

 
  人生短暂,与浩瀚的历史长河相比,世间一切恩恩怨怨,功名利禄皆为短暂的一瞬,福兮祸所伏,祸兮福所倚。得意与失意,在人的一生中只是短短的一瞬。行至水穷处,坐看云起时。古今多少事,都付谈笑中。


  一个老人在行驶的火车上,不小心把刚买的新鞋弄掉了一只,周围的人都为他惋惜。不料那老人立即把第二只鞋从窗口扔了出去,让人大吃一惊。老人解释道:“这一只鞋无论多么昂贵,对我来说也没有用了,如果有谁捡到一双鞋,说不定还能穿呢!”


  显然,老人的行为已有了价值判断:与其抱残守缺,不如断然放弃。我们都有过某种重要的东西失去的事,且大都在心理上投下了阴影。究其原因,就是我们并没有调整心态去面对失去,没有从心理上承认失去,总是沉湎于已经不存在的东西。事实上,与其为失去的而懊恼,不如正视现实,换一个角度想问题:也许你失去的,正是他人应该得到的。


  普希金在一首诗中写道:“一切都是暂时的,一切都会消逝;让失去的变为可爱。”有时,失去不一定是忧伤,反而会成为一种美丽;失去不一定是损失,反倒是一种奉献。只要我们抱着积极乐观的心态,失去也会变得可爱。


  人生箴言:


  放弃是一种睿智,它可以放飞心灵,可以还原本性,使你真实地享受人生;放弃是一种选择,没有明智的放弃就没有辉煌的选择。


  进退从容,积极乐观,必然会迎来光辉的未来。放弃决不是毫无主见,随波逐流,更不是知难而退,而是一种寻求主动,积极进取的人生态度。

十二星座如何忘掉舊情人?

刚刚玩了一个心理测验
还蛮准的

白羊座

靜靜等時光流逝


要基本宮忘掉舊情人,唯一的方法,是靜待時光流逝,讓時間成為最好的良藥,沖淡他所受到的衝擊,以及滿腦子被盤據的回憶。因為天生就懂得記憶術的基本宮,心裡受了創傷,比誰都想忘掉,但就是忘不了,這會讓他們無比痛苦,而且每想起一些細節、就得再花時間處理一些新傷,所以他們通常很久才能展開下一段戀情。如果他們終身不娶或不嫁,很有可能是因為傷得太重,已無法再相信任何人,一輩子都在努力撫平心中的傷痛。






除了等待時光流逝,新戀人能夠給他多少愛,也是他能走出傷痛的關鍵。只要能許他一個未來及一份滿滿的愛,時間久了,他的傷口自然會慢慢填平,對愛情重拾信心。但千萬別逼他要很快接受你的愛,本性就隨緣的他們,對愛情本來就不強求了,尤其在受過情傷之後,他無法立刻恢復自信,此時逼迫他,只會欲速則不達。

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Re-Memory

很久很久都没更新了!!
就让我一次过“更完”吧!!!




== 06/03/10 ==


S.H.E Concert
Huhu... My SHERO
I had been waiting so long for their concert
Finally I watched it
Hebe的高音真的很美
她们三个人的和音超棒的


Yo yo_ Rins watched with me!!!

 
   

超美的!很特别的演出!

童话世界
没想到和我一起看的会是Rins


== 15/03/10 ==

This day Pess Renjer AJK
visited to Orphanage Home
Early in the morning
I reached Lw house
Ini orang main main
Drive my car to the orphanage home
Her dad teached her as well
But I am so scare once she start the engine
But not bad
She can drive
The orphanage home just somewhere near her house
We out too early
Her friends had not reached yet
then what she do
drive my car around
turn and turn
Somemore she always miss bump
She cant even saw those bump
What lar her
See the photo below
She so 危险驾驶
Around forget what the time d
They all reached
We play around like a kids
Wao..
Those children are hyper-active
scary like hell
Empat BIG kanak-kanak


Ini lw yong sui sui~~
Lolx.. Becareful the baloon bom you!
After the party end
Lw fetch me to her house with my car
Stay at her house whole afternoon
Most fun is
I played with her dog
Damn big man
But so cute
Yeah~
"Alaska"
Her dog love me too
haha
When lw kakak help the dog shower
hahaha
Lw was sitting near the door
Then her dog run infront him with wet wet body
and then her dog "fing" all the water "peng" on lw face
Wakakaka


== 19/03/10 ==

One year anniversary with My Dear National Services friends
We have been know each other one year on this day
We celebrate at Genting Highlands

              
We just go for indoor...
Then keep took photo

Yeah~~

After went to Genting
We back home
Around 7pm like that
We out again
We went to Fullhouse
Forget to write
We four birthday date
Cynthia-22/03
Cermaine-23/03
Jessie-24/05
Nrs-25/05

So that we celebrate our birthday together


== 25/03/10 ==

Whoo..
My birthday!
Yeah
Early in the morning when i had reached school
Then I saw them wearing white t-shirt
They ask me to wear black colour
Then they wear white
Terkejut man!!!
Somemore exam day
Yiyer
But my friends celebrate my birthday with me
At class..
PE004
Lolx..
Then they sang song to me
They so sakai le
Ask me to take a straw to blow the candle
Somemore that is magic candle
Got the video on facebook
Then dunno why the mun xin is moody she went home first
before I celebrate.
At her house i celebrate my birthday again
After exam,
we went to Leisure Mall for dinner
Yo~ Here in Mun Xin house

Thank you friends
Im very happy
very very hapy
The special birthday
Yo~
Thank you all the person who had wish me!
Muackkz Love you guys!


== 27/03/10 ==

Sin Hong, Jeann, Shirley,Puiyan,Yoke kee, me, Kei Hoong and Jeann(bf)
We went to taman pertanian at Shah alam.
There is really nice
We played bicycle too
Wohoo..
Nice man
What happened here
Got 2 person bicycle got problem
Yoke kee and me help them repair it
So my hand so dirty!
Damn
Cool
Get set go!

I just simply updated
Not much word
Because I'm damn lazy!!